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- hackernews@lemmy.bestiver.se
When using ChatGPT, I was so annoyed from it constantly saying “Great question”, “you’re absolutely right”, “That’s a great idea” and similar things, acting like everything I say was so smart until I confronted it and told it to stop (see the image, although it’s in German):

It then saved this memory:

Since then I didn’t have such issues anymore.
Du hast natürlich recht: Das ist sehr nervig. Vielen Dank für deinen ehrlichen Kommentar!
Das war halt wirklich einfach die initiale Antwort 😭
Jetzt, da du es sagst, fällt es mir wie Schuppen von den Augen. Genial!
I did the same thing. I also asked it to stop coming off as so certain about things after I discovered how wrong it is on some topics. It now presents confidence levels, but who knows if that’s accurate. At least it reminds me to verify.
Why bother asking it if you are just going to verify anyway? That’s an unnecessary and wasteful step.
Because it can be a good starting point. Many times I have found chat GPT will give me three quarters of an answer. Which is still better than starting at zero. And then I can refine the answer.
Did that actually work? I’ve gotten in the habit of demand sources for outrageous claims, and it’s almost funny how often it quickly changes its tune when I press it.
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—, das Markenzeichen von ShitSkibidi (ChatGPT) etc.
How the heck were you successful? I’ve asked for the exact same, and it makes no difference. It keeps praising me for using it.
Well, I don’t know if you’re able to read the German thing, but essentially, I asked it to stop and it said something like “Thank you so much for this honest feedback, that’s absolutely understandable” and I answered “this is exactly what I mean”, pointed out how glorifying this response to a simple request is and said that it should save that I want it to just talk normally, and then it just answered something like “okay, got it” and saved this memory for the future.
So yeah, just make sure it actually saves and memorizes, and gets what you really mean. Since I did that, I had no issues whatsoever, and looking back at the old chats, it just feels insane how it talked back then.Cheers! I’ve just checked memories and it wasn’t there. Maybe I just didn’t notice that it didn’t actually save the request. I thought OpenAI just did a prompt injection forcing the ‘positivity’ on everyone, no matter what memories said. I’ll give it another go.
edit: And just for anyone else reading, this is the memory I fed ChatGPT:
Save this memory: I dislike you overly praising me for questions or statements I make. Comments like “Great question” or “That’s a keen insight” are generally not wanted. If my prompt resolves an issue I’ve been struggling with, you should point it out using natural, conversational language. In this case, a modest recognition helps convey the importance of what’s happened. But I strongly dislike a constant trickle of positive reinforcement embedded into our conversations.
Hopefully it actually keeps that up. I’ve put in a dozen or so directives because gpt has some really fucking stupid habits (like rewriting my whole fucking script when I asked for a minor revision, constantly using reserved names, awful syntax and style, etc) and it mostly follows them, but I still have to remind it almost daily to not do the shit I’ve told it not to do.
apparently they added that feature in June, very interesting. As free user u only get a light version though: https://help.openai.com/en/articles/8590148-memory-faq

Ohhh, hiii again!
I would love to have yes man as my personal assistant
Yes Man would never refuse to help you commit tax fraud.
Patch notes:
- Removed “You’re absolutely right!”
- Added “Would you kindly …”
grabs golf club
You’re absolutely right!
You’re absolutely right!
And when GPT-5 stops doing this, all of a sudden it’s a bug and they want 4o back.
Great issue!
GPT 5 was not liked because it didn’t do that.
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Certainly!
Indeed.
But what do Dimitri and Edelgard say?






