i have some good men in my life, but it still doesn’t help. my reasons for hating are probably a little strange, and I can’t even discuss it with anyone without being told to go to hell, and I have to deal with it on my own.

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    Whatever you are going through doesn’t sound like it’s good mental health. Talk to a professional who won’t judge your thoughts.

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    Just like anything, if it becomes enough of a problem that it’s affecting your daily life, then you need to talk to someone.

    Having a problem or issue that you can’t resolve by yourself isn’t a weakness or a failing, but it is your responsibility to find a way to make it better or improve it. Talking to someone is the first step in doing that.

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    Tell us your reasons then, if they are so strange. Don’t be coy.

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      i’ve already tried to discuss my problems, and these people takе screenshots of it and send it under my posts as proof that I’m a bad person and deserve to suffer.

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        I scanned your post history and I didn’t see much that seemed connected to this post at all except that you don’t like what you’ve seen men post online. And that wasn’t explained in great detail either. I just am confused and curious I suppose, but if you don’t feel like saying, I don’t know what to tell you.

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          That post was about a different topic and it’s been deleted. I have a lot of problems that I can’t discuss with anyone.

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    As one of your disliked, I am able to relate. I don’t like us either.

    I hope you’re able to weed us out of your life enough to have it not negatively effect you.

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    I assume you’re a woman, but it doesn’t really matter.

    As a man myself, I find the majority of men I interact with annoying. So I think I kinda know how you feel.

    It’s good that you have some good men in your life. But if that’s not helping then it might be better to just minimize interactions with them as much as possible (without alienating the good ones). It’s like if you have a food allergy, it’s easier to just avoid that food. Hell, maybe you’re allergic to men! lol