• JonsJava@lemmy.world
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    Wow, the comments went off the rails here.

    I don’t usually do this, but I’m locking this post. Too much fighting.

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    Damn that’s troublesome, terrible, unbelievable, where can i avoid this, an address would help

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    The only negative I see on here is “history of cheating.”

    I could also see how “Girl Boss” can be negative, but not in a way he means it. He just means women who believe in working outside the home.

    Edit: ok, smoking too - if we are talking cigarettes or meth. Smoke all the weed you want.

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      Depending on how “refuses to cook” comes across, that’s a negative in my book. I won’t want to cook every meal, I’d burn out. It’s a requirement that they are at least willing to do it sometimes. (I like cooking, but some days are just overly draining and I need help)

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        I dated a rich girl for a while who didnt cook, none of her family could. They had a part time maid who would cook for them a bit but mostly ate out and brought home extra meals. Like literally, every time they went out they’d order a couple extra meals to go.

        At one point the mom was sad she couldnt get shrimp scampi anywhere in town. So I cooked dinner for them, because NBD. They thought it was magic, doubly so because im a guy. I litterally had to remove the plastic wrapping off the inside of the oven door to make garlic bread, and all the pots and pans still had stickers in the bottom.

        At one pojnt I also had to teach my 38 year old GF how to operate a washer and dryer.

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      “History of cheating” doesn’t necessarily mean “cheater.” To those on a trajectory to make a mistake, far better lessons come from those who made mistakes and can explain how to avoid them than those who can only say, “don’t make mistakes.” I’m sure there’s a better way to say this than the clumsy words I’ve chosen.

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    Viewing “uses family court” as a negative is such a self report for that guy lol. ‘I can’t believe my ex is making legally binding agreements that I can’t unilaterally change!’ energy

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        Serious question out of curiosity, is it like a mental arousal only thing, or occasional sexual arousal thing? If I’m out of bounds I’m sorry. If you prefer not to answer or if this makes you uncomfortable, please don’t bother answering.

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      5 is a high body count only if you’re a woman. If you’re a man it’s basically nothing and you should aim for at least 100 body count.

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      I know, right? That’s only barely cracking into serial killer territory. How am I supposed to respect a woman if she’s not an accomplished and highly experienced assassin?

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    “Sir, I’m going to need you to introduce me to some of those women you claim to know. Get your keys, we’re leaving right now.”

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          You aren’t Adam Savage. You do not have the ability to substitute your own reality.

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            Thank you for the encouragement! Ah, it’s been a long time since anybody gave me a compliment like that.

            Wait. You said “aren’t” and “do not”.

            Oh. What a terrible day to possess reading comprehension :(

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    “Toxic relationship with father” and “dislikes God / Jesus”.

    Gee, I wonder why this combination would appear anywhere.

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    All of this translates down to “she doesn’t act like a combination mother/servant/virgin/nymphomaniac specifically for me and only me without ever complaining or asking for anything”

    What a godamned cry baby

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      I got, “I am insecure in my masculinity and I need a subservient creature that I will not respect to feel powerful”

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      That line continues ‘Not Mother / Wife Material’ which means he thinks women should care for him as though he were a child.

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        To be fair though he is a child, I just think he should be put out to pasture or something. Don’t worry little Timmy, hes playing on the farm with old yeller.

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    lol of course this is the kind of misogynistic dork that hides behind a picture of Ryan Gosling online.

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    This guy dreams of the times where.women were barefoot and pregnant, basically trained to be slaves to men.

    Obviously, this loser sees his only chance of female companionship in someone submissive, as he seems incapable of a real partnership.

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    Tbf, smoking is a no-go for me. And depending on the amount, drinking might be too. For the rest? I’m pretty sure if I found a woman like that, I’d find her extremely hot.

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      Same, except multiple baby daddies seems like really shit planning and poor responsibility to me. Yeah, it takes two, and you can’t help divorce sometimes, but multiple kids from different fathers on the surface seems irresponsible AF. If the kids make her happy then NBD and I can just sit down and shut up.