SO that makes THEM bad so you can keep justifying the bad things you do…
This sage presumably does not feel guilty about the janitor who is going to have to use harsh chemicals and a lot of scrubbing to remove the graffiti.
Sometimes the need to say something is worth death, nevermind someone getting paid to clean it up. Truth and genuine expression is bigger than the constructs we live in.
My favorite version of this is “everyone’s the villain in someone’s story”.
This is a more general situation but not exactly the same i think
“Everyone is a villain” says, a pov exists where you’re the villain.
Here is more “one will fake a story where you are the villain” (a specific case where the pov in which you are the villain is faked to protect someone’s interests)
I’ve seen the second a lot in breakups were one will find every excuse possible to not think they are the asshole, including gaslighting themselves into thinking the other is a monster respinsible for the whole thing.
Or “all my ex’s are crazy”
All my exes live in Texas
I used to have a coworker who had an ongoing affair for 10+ years, but made herself feel better about it by pointing out that I was gay and an atheist. I never understood her logic.
“But im not going to hell alone, right buddy?”
“I didn’t do it but if I did they deserved it”
And then I internalise that I’m a bad person and feel guilty for making them be disappointed in me and upsetting them, and being selfish and stuff, and what they did to me feels justified, as it was punishment for me being so bad, and they have the right to do whatever they want to me
Thats essentially guilt tripping in a nutshell. The thing is, everyone can be a victim of manipulation without even knowing it ❤️.
Is this what women’s room stall grafitti is like?
Republican strat
Every word starts with a capital, better sleep with one eye open.
“Sometimes”?
Sometimes, people want another person around so that they can blame their own failure to another person.
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