The reactions and opinions people have on this subject only reinforce my belief that, as individuals, we really have very little idea what’s going on in other people’s heads when it comes to sexuality.
As a heterosexual man, it’s difficult for me to imagine having a perfectly ordinary body part that the majority of the opposite sex found so sexually fascinating they’d have to consciously resist the desire to flat-out gaze at my chest.
If a guy has a prominent package it catches and holds your eye too
Most guys wear baggy clothes I guess. I imagine if someone was wearing tight pants then it would catch my eye as a curiosity, but to my personal taste male junk is kind of mundane and lumpy. Almost comedic. Whereas almost every set of boobies holds a weirdly primal allure for me - and it’s only thanks to the miracle of social programming that I don’t just glitch out and mindlessly gaze in wonder.
Honestly doesn’t even register any more. They’re massive, they dominate the landscape. Your eye is drawn by the gravity. It happens
Hell, my own grandmother confessed to me once after we ran into each other at a shopping centre her first thought was “good lord that woman has large breasts” and then she saw my face and recognised me.
My wife has big boobs. Sometimes she shows them off on purpose, but even when she doesn’t, they’re big and round and nice to look at. She says if people are going to look, at least be inconspicuous about it and not stare.
That said, I know other women who have felt cursed by their big boobs because everywhere they go, they’re ogled without their consent. Which is also fair. Just because some women are okay with it, doesn’t mean I’m entitled to check everyone out.
As a man who like boobs of all sizes, I can’t help but glance sometimes. You are all beautiful. Sorry, not sorry.
Very different depending on how I have dressed. High collar or sweater or professional wear, I think you are aweful. Low-cut shirt, bikini, cute outfit, I’m expecting and tolerating you. I only get happy when it’s my boyfriend staring.
Frankly id just like to know what your beef with squirrels is
I just love them too much.
Why are you only asking the women? /s
I’m a man with moobies. Ask me anything!
How do you feel when men or women glance at your moobies?
I’m a little dissapointed they don’t stare more, lick their lips and wink at me.
I’m happily married, so nothing would ever come of it, but it would still be nice.
What’s your opinion of jazz?
Absolutely love it. From Robert Johnson to Herbie Hancock and everything in between. Let me know if you need any specific recomendations.
Who’s the most basic jazz artist? the one everyone knows and yet everyone kinda looks down on. Who’s the The Red Hot Chili Peppers of jazz?
Kenny G
I have heard of Kenny G, which is a strong indicator of basicness. Gonna give him a spin. I yearn for the peoples’ jazz.
He is quite talented, though polarizing. I like him as a musician more than I like his music.
But he is undoubtedly very talented.
What’s your solution for Russell’s paradox?
Something like “sets that aren’t even hypercomputable aren’t real”. Inventing proper classes, which are like sets but randomly can’t go in other things, is a pretty lame solution, anyway. Although, it can probably emulate the former approach, and it’s easy to describe.
Source: I have some flab some places.
To rely on people more competent than me on such matters of importance.
mathematical expressions are evaluated on a computer hardware (the brain), that in “normal” cases eventually converges on a result. but sometimes it starts oscillating instead.
https://youtu.be/dPlzwoE3RAI?t=57
Classic Seinfeld
I’m good, thanks.
what is my purpose?
To be excellent to yourself and others and to party on!
I worked hard enough to get them, I’m glad when anyone looks at them! Most people don’t though because they’re not very big
All boobies are beautiful
ABAB?
ABBA: all boobs be awesome
Assigned Boobs At Birth?
I can’t help myself…
a quick glance? no worries, I’m a lesbian and am certainly guilty of the same. repeated glances or staring is rude and absolutely changes how I treat you in a pretty negative way.
Bold to assume anyone can avoid looking at my tranny rack. What do I do when they don’t look is the better question. Yeah, go look, pervs.
I’m small of bust, but therefore don’t bra often (except at work) so occasionally get a look, I am neither flattered nor offended. I work on my body but boobs are just luck or money, not an accomplishment.
A proud member of the itty bitty titty committee I see
This does feel like a pervy question. Can you argue it’s a legitimate question?
As a hetero, female-breast-fascinated male who tries not to be pervy it seems like an honest question. Consciously or not, sometimes I’m going to be glancing at your boobs. Doesn’t mean I am consciously fantasizing; more like a shiny object I couldn’t ignore. But as a person who wants to be empathetic, I want to know how this comes across to the other person.
Legit AF IMO
It comes across as pervy…even if you don’t try to be…it is.
If you were in prison and some big guy started looking at your bum how would you feel?
Asking how I would feel is a bit of a pervy question, can you explain why it’s legitimate?
Now imagine that the dude is showing just a little bit of his ass crack on purpose, like he wore clothes that specifically expose the top of the crack and accentuate it
This is really it actually, there’s the social norms stuff but like, they really do be accentuated, eyes are gonna always be darting at these fixed places.
I agree it is a poor question, but not for the reasons you say. Mainly because it is clear different women have different opinions on the subject. A women with a push up bra and very little coverage clearly wants them to be noticed. While a women with a regular bra and a normal tshirt may not.
And of course there is the factor of who is noticing. Some only want to be noticed by certain people, while others want to be noticed by evryone. There is no simple answer.I think the point, and usefulness, of this question is to get the many different kinds of answers. As you point out, it’s a nuanced social issue. It would help some people to hear all of the perspectives so they can adjust their behavior appropriately.
Sure, but that is a poll, not a question.
How do you feel when a woman checks out your package?
They do that, they get a glance here and there and try to not get caught. They also talk about it to each other sometimes. Women can absolutely be unnecessarily pervy, just like men.
I always find it funny that that behavior is so less well known but happens a lot as well.
I still remember positively the one women who said “nice package” to me. It was 30 years ago. So I guess I feel complimented? I really shouldn’t. I didn’t have anything to do with it… I was born with it.
So I can totally understand why some women dress to be noticed.
And I have found that women are far more detailed about sexual encounters with each other than men are. Guys always use vague euphemisms. Women are often pretty explicit and specific. More power to them.
you do realize that the whole concept of “perverted” is made up, right?
Men: Ew
Women: Very context dependent
i enjoy and encourage it :3
half the time i’m wearing see-through tops with no bra soooooo yeah lol
Living your best life is what you’re doing 😎
Summary of comments:
Everywhere from “STARE I even make the shirt see through” to “one glance max, a bit annoying if professionally dressed tho”
Idc unless it’s leering
Awww, but that’s what I do best…
