Cis straight here but with family and friends in the community…
In most things, context and execution matters.
I wear a rainbow “he/him” pronoun pin and have a rainbow PopSocket on my phone, but I probably wouldn’t dye my hair non-binary colors since I’m not nonbinary.
I’ll refer to “queer pride” and queer-friendly spaces, but I wouldn’t say that someone is “one of the queers” for instance.
So… I hope that “it depends” is a helpful answer here. :-)



















Strong disagree, for what it’s worth. :-) The 2nd book took awhile to make its way back to the point, but it was on purpose and IMO stuck the landing, and I enjoyed the rest of the ride too.
(I can’t speak to the recently released 4th book yet.)