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Cake day: June 11th, 2023

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  • SekoiatoTransfemQuestion re: speed of HRT
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    3 months ago

    What the others said is true, but:

    • Exercise is just good in general, but also burning fat will burn fat from the “non-fem” areas, which won’t get replenished
    • I heard salmon is good? Because of the fat? Not 100% sure
    • I’ve got 70A/B (EU sizing) in 10 months, so you’ve got more than me there :P but anyway breast growth is just genetics + nutrition + time, don’t focus too much on it
    • I found painted nails help and are fun? I lile black because it’s the default “alt” color so ppl can see me as a guy and still not be weirded out too much




  • SekoiatoADHD memes@lemmy.dbzer0.comThe Cycle™
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    4 months ago

    Ngl I had perfect emotional regulation when depersonalized (was aware of but not influenced by my emotions) and I still only got started when stressed

    Now that I actually feel my emotions, it’s tougher to get started.

    This doesn’t really hold up ime





  • SekoiatoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.worldI feel the same
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    4 months ago

    (Not the original commenter)

    I mean yeah that’s pretty much it. My dad’s cooking is unseasoned cucumber in a pan with some grocery-store veggie balls, which is not enough for 2-3 people. My mom’s cooking is much better, but it’s cooked more out of expectation than enjoyment. Eating together is expected but not enjoyed for its own merits afaik.

    Desserts are the exception usually. Still, it messed up with my relationship to food, made it a lot worse than it could have been. Eating full meals with someone makes me gag, I have trouble eating normal quantities.





  • SekoiatoTrans Memesthey weren't lying [Transmasc]
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    5 months ago

    Ngl as much as some of the stereotypes are true (I can actually cry now that I’m on E), others really aren’t (I get angrier more easily now, when I basically never did before). I’ve also heard of trans guys having an easier time crying on T. Disentangling what is actually caused by hormones and what is caused by cultural perceptions of gender is difficult (especially since T and E are part of cultural ideas too).



  • SekoiatoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.worldThat long?
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    5 months ago

    It’s not intentional. There’s tons of times where I’ve acted poorly because I was hungry, and even if I’m aware of it at the time it doesn’t help much.

    More things feel like personal attacks, you have less self-control, and generally you get more emotional. In retrospect, sure, I know I’ve acted like a dick, but when you’re hungry enough that you can’t think straight…


  • Sekoiato196My Patched Pants [Rule]
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    5 months ago

    Aesthetic decision but in your place I might add some extra “unnecessary” patches, so the real ones stick out a bit less (the back looks cool, so do the legs, it’s… really just the crotch one). Very cool in any case!