

I’ve had success explaining it to the uninitiated by telling them that the only rules for our relationship are those that we have discussed and agreed upon. I usually give them an example or two and make sure I always frame it as my response to their actions. Like “I won’t expect you to be monogamous or exclusive unless we’ve discussed it”. Then I like to add that it’s less stressful than a typical relationship because we both know exactly where the lines are because we’ve discussed them. I’ll finish the explanation by pointing out that it encourages better communication and that if I were to do something that upset them or made them uncomfortable that they can and should bring it up so we can discuss it.
That frames it in a way that doesn’t seem like I want to screw everything with a pulse and have no accountability (because I don’t), which is what RA sounds like to the uninformed. I guess if someone else did want that, this approach wouldn’t work for them.













According to the data that came out after the 2024 election 78% of farmers voted for Trump. How is it a strawman if 4 out of 5 farmers are MAGA voters?