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  • Honestly sounds like you might be a bit on the spectrum, maybe mixed with some anxiety.

    But none of us here are going to be able to give a professional diagnosis, just reccomend exploring that avenue.

    My best advice would be explore things as much as you can safely, but honestly dont worry about doing it and doing it wrong. Absolute worst case you look like a fool for 30 seconds in front if some strangers, but gain knowledge you can use for years (even about something as simple as ordering food).

    Wearing headphones, especially noise cancelling can also help cut out a lot of the, well, noise in the environment and discourage others from focusing on you (by looking busy), so make things like exploring a new library easier to approach as well.

    All anecdotal though, so take it all with a grain of salt and recognise if any of this feels like its not working for you - dont force it! You’ll figure out what works best for you in time.