𝓹𝓻𝓲𝓷𝓬𝓮𝓼𝓼

neurodivergent queer luddite technologist

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Cake day: 2023年7月2日

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  • fwiw i think you were (mostly) in the right there

    it’s the same logic imo behind “we don’t misgender quote bad unquote people”

    if it’s a shitty thing to do – and imo attacking someone’s physical ability is a shitty thing to do – justifying it because you think the target somehow deserves it doesn’t make it not shitty

    it also makes anyone vulnerable to that behavior because others have decided it’s justified, that they are part of whatever “other” group

    (there are parallels here to death penalty or prison abolition arguments)

    (also we have to hold space for the paradox of tolerance. nazi punks fuck off, etc.)

    the only thought I have to the contrary here is that what AOC said (“maybe if you channeled this anger into swimming faster …”) can be read as critical of the transphobe’s behavior and choices – where she’s choosing to direct her anger – and not her physical ability

    anyway

    people sure can be shitty and defensive about it, huh

    I hope you can take some time doing nourishing things away from the internet and feel better. all warriors need a break from the front lines, SJW’s included


    edit: this happened on a blahaj community? wow. I am disappointed in my peeps. otoh queer communities, like all besieged communities of vulnerable people, are understandably sensitive and kinda bitey toward anything that might threaten them. everything is complicated



  • assuming this is on lemmy, if a user is causing that much disruption amd harassing people you could message the admin(s) of the user’s instance explaining the situation, provide evidence, and hope they’ll ban the user

    if the user is banned and creates another account, repeat

    if the user is on an instance that won’t ban them, contact the admins of other instances to try to have that instance deferated