• 0 Posts
  • 73 Comments
Joined 1 month ago
cake
Cake day: November 5th, 2025

help-circle








  • In the EU framework, the certifying authorities are the same that issue your passport, your driving license; the state. I fail to see the issue with allowing them to issue another proof of who I am.

    The risk is tracking. The way the EU mandates this framework is built requires zero knowledge built into the system. Then you can definitely say “they lie”, but if you believe your government would lie about this, then you already believe they would lie about all the other million ways they could track you, if it wasn’t illegal for them to do so. You’re really not giving up anything you haven’t already given up when the national state was formed as a concept. And in this case we gain a lot, namely keeping profit and “engagement” out of having a conversation online. Eventually you have to trust someone - I’d prefer my democratically elected government (but I acknowledge that I live in places where I have that luxury).


  • What you’re describing would no doubt improve matters.

    But fundamentally, we are shirking around a ground truth that the kind of things that stir in male biology aren’t terribly useful in today’s modern world; men biologically need to feel useful in their physicality, to have something to protect and something to provide for.

    The terrifying slide towards all the bullshit hyper masculinity or Jordan Peterson style “self improvement” is all a reaction to the fact that, with where we are heading, many of those traits can’t find a natural home in how we’ve structured the world.


  • I’m super calm about this. This is based on rational analysis and technical knowledge about how the framework for this can work.

    I wish to clip the wing feathers of every single US tech giant spewing their right wing, authoritarian bullshit straight into the eyeballs of every democratic citizen in Europe. I wish to do it calmly, and I am convinced it can be done.

    There is 100% a route to verifying identity without privacy invasion. EU’s framework mandates ZKPs and the trial states are building it accordingly. No one will know who is verifying, where they verify, when or what they verify. The site itself will simply know “this is a legit person”.

    I’m giving you an upvote, of course, because I believe in rational debate even if we disagree.


  • sunbeam60@feddit.uktoEurope@lemmy.mlThank youuuuuuu
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    5
    ·
    edit-2
    4 days ago

    I’m not willing to sacrifice our democracy and the health of our children (I’ve got four, ages 4-18, I see the impact amongst them and their friends) on the altar of tech giants’ profit.

    We hold press accountable. We ourselves are held to account for what we say IRL. Why does all that look different on social media just so Zuckerberg and Musk can line their pockets and enable platforms for non-democratic actors to involve themselves in our democracies?

    It’s now official US policy to undermine European unity and support right wing nationalists.

    I say bring those US tech giants to heel. We don’t have to turn into another America here, by making the same mistakes.

    If Musk is against it, I’m almost always for it.




  • My wife and I have four kids. I’m speaking with a thousand yard stare here.

    First of all, having kids is BY FAR the best thing that ever happened to me.

    But it didn’t feel that way in the beginning.

    I won’t use “you”, but “I”. I can’t guarantee that my experience will be mirrored by you. But I can say that the fathers I know well enough to have open conversations with on this topic broadly agree with this.

    It’s great you’re asking these questions. You’ll no doubt get lots of good answers. So I won’t pile on.

    But I wish to tell you something I completely didn’t understand.

    The first year of the first kid is HARD. It’s hard for mummy; even harder if she’s breastfeeding.

    But it will be super hard for you too. Because everyone will just expect you to be “supportive daddy” and buck up. Meanwhile you’ll be going through your own journey. Your journey isn’t visible. Your stomach isn’t contracting. Your weight isn’t shifting (well, only by reaching for easy meal options at least) and (if mummy is breastfeeding) you’re not the one with sore nipples or mastitis.

    There were times when I quietly, in the dark, trying to lull baby to sleep, asked myself “what have I done?” … “is this my life now?!”

    I felt I completely disappeared. My end credits had rolled. I was a supporting actor in somebody else’s film.

    And the crucial experience I missed was this: It doesn’t last long.

    But man it felt endless. I felt utterly worn out and with no “tour of duty” end date ahead.

    It’s over before it even begins. Each day today is the hardest day you’ll do on this. Tomorrow will be easier. Next week easier than that. In a month even easier.

    And gradually, slowly, I returned. “I” became an entity again. I had time do something for me.

    What I wished someone had told me was this very thing: It won’t be long. It’s hard but it’ll be much easier soon.

    Enjoy it! Kids are just the very best thing you’ll ever do. (But only after a while).





  • Google Sheets is competing with Excel. Proton Sheets is competing with Google Sheets. So Proton Sheets is competing with Excel.

    I used Word as a comparative example to say that parts of the office/docs suite are easy to compete with (there’s only so may things a word processor can do), while others (like Google Sheets or Excel, whichever order you prefer) is incredibly difficult to compete with; a formatting error on import of a Word doc is acceptable. An unsupported formula ruins the entire thing.