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Cake day: January 28th, 2024

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  • Hello fellow nb o7

    In my case, my dysphoria got a little better after losing some weight and learning to work out to “modify” my shape a bit. Can’t really do anything about my hip bones, but losing weight = losing fat around the hip = making it look less pronounced. I’ve also been focusing my workouts to get wider shoulders and more solid obliques, which makes the body look more like a “rectangle” instead of an “hourglass.”

    Putting on muscles as an afab takes a lot of time, esp if you’re not on T. I’m still a long way to my ultimate goals, but I definitely don’t dread looking at the mirror as much as I did a year ago!







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    7 months ago

    For me it’s tighter than a sports bra, unfortunately!

    If you have the means, I definitely suggest getting one your size and another one that’s one size bigger (e.g., getting one L and one XL). That way, you have an option depending what you want to do that day and wear the one that’s more appropriate for the day. For example, I use my size when I’m just going out to the mall or for a walk, but I use the bigger one when I’m going to a crowded concert or doing some light exercise.







  • Oh, I didn’t realize you made a new RPDR + drag community! Yay!

    S17 was pretty entertaining, and I will forever be grateful that it introduced me to Ms. Suzanne Boots haha. She’s quickly becoming one of my fave DR queens ever 🥹 One of my favorite moments of the season was the “introduce your partner” mini challenge – Jewels’ description of Suzie had me in tears, plus “…And ‘cerebral’ is spelled wrong” just straight up killed me LMAOOO

    I thought Jewels won the LSFTC, but Onya won the overall season, so I’m not mad at all! The performances were great, Jewels and Lexi were my faves.

    Also, Lexi doing all her ruveals in 2 seconds when her name wasn’t called 😭💙 She would’ve devoured the stage!

    My only complaint is that tiny stage for the supposedly grand finale 🥲