I never take long ones so I’m intrigued

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    9 months ago

    To me it’s like saying, what are you actually doing when you get a massage?

    Enjoying it

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    9 months ago

    I’m actually having a shower, just being too tired/unmotivated to do it at “normal” speed.

  • recursive_recursion they/them@lemmy.ca
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    9 months ago

    For better or for worse I tend to reflect and ruminate over the things I did that day and worry/think about how I can be better.

    • as this usually adds like 10mins to my showers I’ve started to play one of my favorite tracks to help me time limit myself

    That and sometimes I get great ideas that tends to loop on itself and so out of fear of losing my funk I also delay getting out😅

      • ragebutt@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        9 months ago

        Not the same at all. I realize this is my fault for poorly communicating. I want to sit down while being enveloped in toasty water that brings me back to the only peaceful period of my life, the uterine experience. And really I want to lay down

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    9 months ago

    Sit on the floor, let hot rain warm me, breathe, let every muscle relax, try to find the center of me, fail, still enjoy warmth.

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    9 months ago

    Depends, it’s just nice to stand under warm water so if I’ve got the time I’m not gonna rush.

    Sometimes I’m doing an “everything” shower where I use conditioner on my hair and facial cleanser, etc. whereas a usual quick one is just shampoo and shower gel

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    9 months ago

    Generally, time blindness and waking up. Feels like 10 minutes, really was closer to 30-40. I never feel fully awake until I’ve showered.

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    9 months ago

    Either just stand there and let my toughts wander, or shave my balls, or have sex with my wife if she tagged along, or furious masturbation followed by self loathing.