i need support, im panicking right now. i swear, the only people who ever like me realize they’re aromantic or fear of commitment.

edit: not panicking, need someone to talk to. i’m upset about someone who was never mine. she just liked me, she wasn’t mine. i wasn’t hers.

i need to process things, ugh

  • Broadfern@lemmy.world
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    1 month ago

    I’m sorry, getting over a one-sided relationship can be rough. It’s easy to give all of your heart when you have a lot of love in it, hopefully you can turn it towards yourself in the meantime.

    Breakups suck no matter what, and processing is hard but necessary. Take the grief at your own pace and be gentle. Internet hugs if you want them 🫂

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    1 month ago

    The approach I’ve taken to break ups in the past is to list out what went well and what didn’t. Ask questions like “what does this teach me about my own needs?” And just think about what I should look for in the future.