• Broadfern@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    60
    ·
    17 days ago

    Yep lol my SO picks up on and accommodates my, er, “quirks” more often than I even notice said “quirks.”

    I’m very grateful but it’s also funny in a way to think I’m doing great at masking then be told (lovingly) that I look like a distressed owl while attempting to tolerate a public space 😂

    • Digit@lemmy.wtf
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      15
      ·
      17 days ago

      Looking forward to the day we no longer suffer that ableist conformist pressure to conform and mask.

  • mokus
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    25
    ·
    17 days ago

    It took me way too long to understand this post. How’s an autistic gal supposed to know what a stare means?

  • Tonava@sopuli.xyz
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    12
    ·
    17 days ago

    I was in that situation with myself when I was going through the autism diagnosis process, I even literally stared at myself in the mirror a few times. One line specifically I remember reading from the papers during it was something like “the patient shows classic tic symptoms, constantly scratching their head and twitching” and I was like “but-b… … oh