i used to be forced to shave my legs a lot by my family and they still constantly comment on my hairy legs, but having hairy legs makes me feel more masculine. the guy i like, however, doesn’t wanna pressure me, but also wants me to shave my legs. should i do it?

  • fractureM
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    3 months ago

    does the guy you like recognize you as a guy?

    • ShrimpCurler@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      3 months ago

      I think this line of thought is really important here. You two may like each other but just be incompatible due to gender identiny and sexuality. It really sucks if that’s the case, but it’s better to recognise it earlier rather than later.