My happy place is watching videos of cats loudly purring :3
I came up with a joke that I resisted making, but it had such perfect timing and setup … my partner was explaining to some friends how she is very allergic to cats and how it’s so bad she can’t even touch a cat. I later told her that I wanted to say, “and that makes our relationship very awkward” (for context, we are lesbians).
The friends were too new and I didn’t want to make such a crude joke until they were more comfortable and knew me better, but it did make me reflect on why I found it so hard to let it go and not make the joke - I do think making people laugh is almost desperately important to me; even if I’m no comedic genuis, part of my brain is always trying to find an angle for a joke, and it’s probably because I feel good when I make people laugh (besides the ways it relieves the social tension I’m so sensitive to).
I laughed, you can pretend I’m your good friend
to help me visualize, are you ten squirrels in a trench coat pretending to be one large squirrel, or is this more of a sens8 situation where the 10 squirrels are all over the world living their own lives, but they all share a brain link and are one super-organism?
More of a crowded Ratatouille situation, each one controls a finger.
omfg, lol
“omg they understood the stupid nonsense in my head AND they agree that it’s funny i love them ❤️❤️❤️”
Hmm anytime I feel like my presence isn’t annoying people
But how do you know?!
People are usually just laughing at the joke my parents made 😅
Doesn’t it suck to have parents who are funnier than you? Asking for my kid.
I’d recommend working towards finding internal validation instead of external validation
Or, as (mostly) well balanced people, we can let others enjoy both and not assume enjoyment of one implies neglect of the other.








