• Madzielle@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    2 months ago

    I hate these posts because it leans… idk. leans into sterotypes about women.

    Im more than “omg clothes”.

    sorry, I wont say anything about it again, and ill scroll past as I usually do. But everytime I see “how would you style this?” on a perfectly thin, young, model women, I feel discluded, because women stuff is like, so much bigger than how we look. I hate it and it upsets me. This is one way capitalism entraps women. “Buy clothes and be pretty!”

    im sorry I had to get it off my chest, I wont bother no one about it again. Just sucks for me evertime I see this kind of thing.

    • Oxysis/Oxy
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      2 months ago

      I can definitely see this side of things, I used to be more like this (especially early in my own transition). And you certainly do have a great point with the whole “ideal body type” complaint.

      But I do think there’s more to it than just purely “omg clothes”. How I see it is more of getting a picture of other people’s style. Without necessarily needing everyone to be comfortable sharing photos of themselves or their space. It also gives a little glimpse into who someone is, how you dress can share a lot about you.

      I do hope to see some of these fashion posts with models of more varied body types. Sorry if this comes off as confrontational/argumentative, just genuinely think there’s benefit from these posts in a community building perspective.

  • LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zoneOPM
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    2 months ago

    This isn’t a colour or style I’d wear but I think I could pull them off! I’m going for an oversize off the shoulder graphic t shirt with a cardy. I’m either gonna go chunky boots or chunky trainers idk what. Accessories I’ll keep simple cos there’s a lot of noise in the outfit

  • Clocks [She/They]@lemmy.ml
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    2 months ago

    Crop top & skin tight plain white top. Then a puffy cropped jacket or flat jacket matching the pants texture with it.

    I’d want a negative space between two positives.

  • dkppunk@piefed.social
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    1 month ago

    I would never wear those pants because I don’t do high waisted anything like that.

    If I were to style it, I’d probably say a solid color tank top underneath with a multicolor flannel on top. Maybe add a beanie and some sneakers to go for that 90s grungy look.