• Bluefalcon@discuss.tchncs.de
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    “God, you’re hot. Do you know that? Where do you go to school at?”

    How do you possible make this worse? Ask them where they wll be later.

    Not calling for violence but how does this not get you tarred and feather in the parking lot?

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      Not calling for violence but how does this not get you tarred and feather in the parking lot?

      Haven’t you noticed? pedophiles are in fashion now… they can even be presidents

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        He’s a symptom. Violence against the idiots who can’t help but say the quiet part out loud on camera won’t stop the millions that do manage to keep the most blatant statements contained to men’s spaces.

        What we need is a culture of nuanced introspection and personal growth, where people like him can admit that they’re pigs without it destroying their lives or moral standing, instead being a first step towards rehabilitation. Women and girls deserve to be kept safe from him and boys deserve better teachers, so he wouldn’t be able to work in education until he has done a lot of personal growth, but violence is just scapegoating.

        Of course if the state threatens violence unless you pay taxes that pay for people like him to endanger women, then you can engage in organized mutual self-defense. Hard to get to that culture of personal growth otherwise.

        In the mean time, people are entitled to organised mutual self-defense against him, which might also include violence but probably won’t.

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        There is more effective ways of dealing with it, outside of violence. I do like tar and feather though, just the right amount of violence

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          Just so we are clear, tarring and feathering is an extremely violent act. I’m not arguing against it, but covering someone in molten tar is not non-violent in the slightest. I’m personally all for it.

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          Is chemical castration, violence? I suppose it is. I would imagine the tech isn’t available to the general public anyway.

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      Pedophiles are praise worthy unless you are trying to make it big on the Internet, then you beat up random people who cant fight back and pretend they are this guy.

      Everyone is willingly living a hypocritical lie these days.

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    anyone else in that room who did not immediately stand up and drag this douche out by the ear is complicit.

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      Didnt hear them laughing at it and the one older lady going “ohhh you” as if he does this all the time to children?
      Cause they are accpeting of it. It comes from being bigger than the allegations.

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        as if he does this all the time to children?

        It wasn’t just “a child”, it was a fellow board member. Guy has zero respect for the office, the students, or women generally speaking.

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          I honestly don’t get how that makes it worse. Like, doing this to a board member is worse??? I don’t get this stance at all.

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            Like, doing this to a board member is worse???

            Doing this to some random student is gross.

            Doing this to another board member is also gross. But it signifies a kind of structural disrespect that undermines the office as well as the individual. It’s symptomatic of a general institutional disgust for student involvement in school affairs.

            Like Bush Jr doing the creepy shoulder rub on Angela Merkel or - in a more extreme example - UN staffers who were “approached, accosted and raped” by fellow officials and dignitaries. It isn’t merely a personal transgression. It undermines the entire function of the representative body.

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            I think they meant the “oh you” comment was from a board member. The article says he said it to a student.

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                  Read the article.

                  One of our colleagues, Keith Ervin, made a grossly inappropriate comment toward our student Board member.

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        People also laugh when they are uncomfortable and don’t know what else to do. Obviously we’d rather see objections than nervous tittering, but I wouldn’t always take laughter as active complicity / celebration.

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          I was being over the top with the complicity mostly out if anger at the situation. I understand that people respond poorly in stressful situations but we need to start getting better at it.

          This was a time I think it mattered to speak up.

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            Yeah I agree with all of that. Part of what was in my mind is that I would perceive a man laughing as very different than a woman laughing. I assume that all women live under potential sexual threat from men at all times, and laughing at an advance is a way to defuse it without getting confrontational. “Haha surely you jest” is actually a deflection, even if it isn’t a head on confrontation. I’m a man and I don’t fear direct confrontations, but I understand women don’t have the same privilege as I do in this regard.

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    Wow, that’s… that’s pretty cut-and-dry. Like honestly what the fuck? How the hell did literally no one stop that meeting right then and there?

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      He only wrapped his arm around her and asked where a hot child could be found later…

      She was in no immediate danger. Didnt you hear the school board’s statement?

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        Adult: ‘What school do you go to?’ -child answers adult- Adult: ‘Allllriiiiiiiiiiiiiight!!!’

        The lean in…gross. All of it, disgusting and completely unacceptable. I feel sorry for that child, and can’t believe not a single board member stood up and called it for what it was and immediately stopped the proceedings. That was my first instinct imagining myself there. Full fucking stop, protect that child and bring that nasty man to account.

        Are people in such a true state of psychosis these days that we just ‘heh heh this is fine’ fucking everything now?

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          We only interact with things that make us happy or joy.
          I wouldnt feel joy calling out his behavior so I don’t.

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      Tennessee not exactly known for being civilized and Trump won Washington County by 39 points over Harris in 2024. These people are exactly who’d you expect in Appalachia.

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    White House chief of staff: “Mr president… we’ve found your new Secretary of Education sir”

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    But think of the children!

    These are the same people who push things like age verification, and banning porn. The really worse part about this, despite his hand-waving “I didn’t mean to offend anyone” bullshit, is that this apparently has become so normalized that this has become something that is taking a large amount of effort and time to resolve (if it ever gets resolved).

    In any normal timeline, this a) would have never happened so publicly, and 2) he would’ve been immediately removed and stepped down in shame.

    But here we are: the Dark Ages pt. 2. Their masks are off, and they are leaving their shame behind. This is our new normal.

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      La crisi consiste appunto nel fatto che il vecchio muore e il nuovo non può nascere: in questo interregno si verificano i fenomeni morbosi piú svariati.

      • Antonio Gramsci

      Now is the time of monstrous acts

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        You might think history teaches; it repeats;

        page after page, a poem in perfect rhyme

        tolls echoing bells from both sides of the sheets

        for births and funerals, tells the time

        of ageless Alice, Hamlet’s fallacies—

        the latest light from vanished galaxies.

        • Krauerking@lemy.lolOP
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          As Antonio Gramsci would put from his prison cell while wondering why Italy became Fascist without people putting up a fight.

          History teaches, but it has no pupils

          We fell to the same thing, we let the wealthy define our culture. Our culture is now that of being cruel and taking. And people wish to be popular and wealthy more than moral or right. So we shift towards their world and act like them, till we have the cruelty in our own hearts.

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          Well alas we’ve seen it all before

          Knights in armor, days of yore

          The same old fears and the same old crimes

          We haven’t changed since ancient times

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        I’m sure it’s theoretically possible to not want to pay your fair share of taxes, while not dunking on any particular minority.

        It’s rare though.

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          It’s always just selfishness with conservatives. It’s not complicated, they’re just selfish assholes through and through. If you wanna know what a conservative will do, just imagine the most selfish move and voila.

          Children starving or an extra $50 in property taxes, guess what the conservative picks every single time!

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            It’s surprising how quickly they come as well.

            I’ve seen perfectly normal people go from “I felt a bit ill after that COVID vaccination, I’ll look it up online” to spreading fake stories about immigrants and having opinions about Hunter Biden. Within months. They’re not even American.

            This shit’s a fucking virus, and social media is the vector.

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              You said one thing. Put on your thinking cap, I’m sure even you can figure that one out.

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                I don’t get the hostility. It seemed like a pretty uncontroversial observation to me. Nobody complains about “the left”, they complain about “the far left”; nobody complains about “the right”, they complain about “the far right”. Anybody with two brain cells to rub together can observe this.

                I have no idea why this would upset anybody, but it seems like I’ve triggered some people. Unless you’re just bots, in which case: deuces.

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                  If you want a genuine answer, people are upset because you’re expressing a centrist opinion. Centrism more or less advocates for maintaining the status quo. The status quo sucks for most people.

                  You’re also equating the far left with the far right. To understand why this is upsetting, we can look at some basic definitions. If someone is on the Left, they are generally in favor of more equality, while those on the right want more hierarchy. Equality and hierarchy are opposites. You can see this in a more concrete way by comparing the goals of far-left organizations to the goals of far-right ones.

                  I think a lot of the confusion comes from the Cold War. Countries like the USSR and China would claim to have far-left intentions while acting in right-wing ways. You cannot achieve left-wing goals through right-wing action.

                  Even the term “Communist country” is an oxymoron, because Communism advocates for a stateless society, and governments never voluntarily give up power.

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          I don’t know how you people don’t get tired of the same boring ass gotchas every day. We get it. You hate everyone who doesn’t have your exact political beliefs.

          Anyone who gives a shit that you despise anyone to the right of you is not someone whose opinion I give a flying fuck about.

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    I became involved because I reside in Washington County, I went to school my entire life in these schools. The things that are happening now have happened for as long as I can remember. It’s the “good ole boy” system. They protect each other and let each other get away with whatever they want, and it needs to stop.

    Many such cases, tale as old as time, etc.

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    And he is sitting next to her and grabs her when he says it… Ewww.

    Definitely investigate this guy, i bet he has a BAD history. May be some criminal charges in the future.

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      He is already not allowed on school grounds unsupervised because of his sexual comments to children from before this incident.

      So agreed on the bad history.

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    Is the girl in question the one blurred out? And is he not touching her? How is that appropriate? It’s not JUST the inappropriate sexual comment, but also TOUCHING of a minor, during a public meeting.

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        Well… that tells us all we need to know then

        Off to the dungeons with him

        EDIT: Aaaaaand I’m now finding out they didn’t even stop the meeting. Come the fuck on

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      They’d have to blur her because otherwise she’d be doxxed, and have incels claiming she’s ugly and should be grateful that a man noticed her, and worse. As it is, her name is probably readily available and she is probably getting worse attention than the asshole who harrassed her.

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    Later, he would be heard to scoff in indignation at the response to his comment saying “what it was a compliment!”

    He went on to tell the female reporter to smile more.

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    What’s wild is they don’t get what’s wrong about this. “It was meant to be complimentary” “was in no immediate danger”. Fucking what?

    1: that phrasing directed at an underage student your responsible for 2: the follow up with “what school do you go to?” As if he’s gonna look her up later