The only way I’ll ever have children is through adoption but it seems most guys want biological children.
Most of the guys I met would say that they fear that they wouldn’t see an adopted child as theirs which honestly breaks my heart a little.
I did some research and apparently most adoptive parents generally chose that option because the man is infertile, not the other way around.
So it would seem like most men are only contemplating adoption if they’re infertile themselves but if their partner is they’ll prefer to just get a different girlfriend over adopting kids.
Let me know if you think this is not the case, I want to believe you.
If I had the money/time to spend raising a kid, I would totally do it. My mom was adopted so paying it forward only seems right, plus it would be literally life changing for the kid.
Would have to be a slightly older kid, maybe a preteen or so? I watched a movie as a kid about a main character who lived in an orphanage, and I can always remember a scene where they were watching younger kids (toddlers or so) get adopted and the older ones getting passed over, so that would be a big ‘rule’ for me.