• ZDL@lazysoci.alEnglish
    126·
    2 months ago

    I don’t think I have ever seen such a pristine example of someone telling on himself.

    edited to add

    Aside from Ben Shapiro and his rant about WAP, I mean. That remains the gold standard.

    • Remember_the_tooth@lemmy.worldEnglish
      17·
      2 months ago

      Every morning, looking in the mirror:

      “j’accuse!”

      Yeah, buddy, that guy on the other side of the glass is the problem.

      • LostCarcosan@lemmy.todayEnglish
        22·
        2 months ago

        It stands for Wet Ass Pussy, implying a woman is sexually aroused, as a woman’s vagina (pussy) self lubricates (becomes wet) when she is interested and excited about the prospect of having sexual intercourse. ‘Ass’ being used as an additional descriptor to imply that the ‘pussy’ is extremely ‘wet’

  • Jessica@discuss.tchncs.deEnglish
    50·
    2 months ago

    Benefit of the doubt here, but it could be that she was off medication or undiagnosed for something during their time together. There’s not a lot to go on

    • velma@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
      89·
      2 months ago

      Divorcing my husband certainly allowed me to take the time to go on and be diagnosed.

      Turns out having a man downplay your symptoms, call you a hypochondriac, and tell you that you can just force yourself to not be depressed is a real detriment to a healthy life.

      So yeah. There’s not a lot to go on here. We could all project our own stories onto it give or take.

      But I do think most of us as women recognize that the subjugation of our sex over time has set up this type of scenario time and time again. To gain freedom after being in a relationship that drains you is not even a gender specific feeling, I think women generally experience it on a different level.

  • bstix@feddit.dkEnglish
    33·
    2 months ago

    I have the same issue. With my garden.

    I try to give the fruit bushes everything, but they refuse to even attempt living. Shade or sun, doesn’t matter. Too little water, too much water, always fainting in the most dramatic manner.

    The only things that thrive in my garden are the wild papavers. I never touch them. Other more serious gardeners have difficulty even growing them, but me, I just let them live. I wish I could do the same to the fruit bushes that I actually want.

    • Luccus@feddit.orgEnglish
      15·
      2 months ago

      Have you checked your soil type with a jar test?

      I know poppies really like sandy soil types, which some trees and shrubs may find troublesome, because sandy soil flushes nutrients like crazy.

      • Taleya@aussie.zoneEnglish
        3·
        2 months ago

        They also do well in poor nutrient soils due to the longer taproot, like Comfrey does

    • chiliedogg@lemmy.worldEnglish
      10·
      2 months ago

      I always tell people that if they have some invasive weed they absolutely cannot get rid of, there’s an easy solution.

      Explain to me how the plant was originally grown by your great-great grandmother and how it’s been passed down the family for generations, and that you need me to take care of it while you’re on vacation.

  • UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.mlEnglish
    17·
    2 months ago

    His wife probably told him, and if she didn’t in a effort to save things that is on her. Communicate to people so they know how bad they’ve fucked up if you want them to get better.

    • velma@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
      33·
      2 months ago

      Did you really come into a women’s only community and proceed to blame the woman in the screenshot?

      No other context. You just decided it’s the woman’s fault.

      • -☆-English
        12·
        2 months ago

        To be fair, the first thing they said is that it’s probably the husband’s fault. Then follows an alternative

  • JstAnthrUsr@feddit.orgEnglish
    7·
    1 month ago

    I really do enjoy how everyone is judging the poster on whatever their headcanon says happens when basically no Detail has been given.

    • RobotsLeftHand@lemmy.worldEnglish
      6·
      1 month ago

      Yeah, people always want to find blame. Maybe they just didn’t belong together. Though the one detail we have is that this poster doesn’t seem to want to accept that the ex was doing poorly because of the relationship, whatever the reason.