• Da Cap’n@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      Exactly. Parents who complain about their kids behavior…like, did you drop them off with a pack of wolves or did you actually pay attention to them and take time out for them to teach them as opposed to yelling, dictating and insulting them?

      Oh wait, maybe that’s just how I was brought up.

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      Lol, this is what I tell my wife when she complains about one of our kids. “Guess they weren’t brought up right”.

      For real though…children are humans with independent thoughts and a world of influences. Blaming parents for anything kids do wrong is insane, as if they’re little automatons who have been programmed by parents.

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        In my family this would have resulted in one parent telling the other parent that “your daughter” wasn’t raised right. That’s all I’m saying.

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      For this sort of thing I’m not sure it matters. You either give a shit about this or it doesn’t even reach your attention. I’ve seen people raised by meticulous engineers that do this kind of crap. It drives those of us that care absolutely nutty as it would literally take effort for us to do something like this so we assume it’s done to piss us off but it usually is just something that some people don’t attend to at all. In their mind it’s just pizza in fridge, done, next thing.

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        People seem to have taken this as a slight against op, but I’m gonna be real with you, for me it’s not that deep. Better to be shoved in sideways than not put in the fridge at all.

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          I tell my wife all the time: if you can at least put it in the fridge, then it won’t go bad. If I don’t like where you put it, I can always reorganize later. I can’t un-spoil food.

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    Condiments are the death of refrigerator space. All different sizes, almost never consumed quickly, and they eat up space waiting to be used.

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      that’s why they have shelves in the doors. also, why is the syrup in the fridge?

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        If you look closely, you’ll see that syrup is structural, load bearing syrup. That’s why it’s in the fridge.

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          My fridge is full of load bearing pickle jars with no pickles only brine from that one time I made pickles like 4 years ago lol

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        Why would you look at this and not understand the door shelves are full too?

        Syrup lasts longer in the fridge, particularly real maple syrup. It can get mold growing on it.

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          why would you look at this and not understand that there is likely some expired or never used product that could be thrown out to make room in the door shelves?

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        I put my condiments in the veggie drawers and my veggies on the shelves, lol. Can more easily see what I still have and if it’s going bad. Too many goopy cilantro or zucchini experiences

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    Seems fine to me. Taking everything out to put the pizza box on the bottom, then removing it again to take out a slice of pizza is inefficient

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      i do the same thing. the leftover pizza will be gone first thing in the morning anyway.

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      In the same way that being trans is not a choice but comes with the human experience of being that person and living in that body, being of a certain age is also just not a choice. Getting randomly bitchslapped for it as I skim through comments is unpleasant, which was clearly your intent.

      I’d expect someone who knows what it is to be othered as a matter of rote to also refrain from using othering terms, rather than selfishly offloading the same exact casually offensive shit unnecessarily onto those they in turn consider to be easy targets.

      Guess I expected wrong.

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        Writing a guilt trip to compare “ok boomer” to the vitriol and hate that trans people experience is some big boomer energy.

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          shitting on someone else just for being unlike you and having different standards for yourself

          Isn’t that exactly what you yourself are doing?

          And aren’t you lying about it now, as you insist on trying to imply that “boomer” – your term – is not an explicit age-related insult?

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    Why are you ragging on your daughter? It’s your fault she doesn’t know how to load a dishwasher, and this is a legit pizza strategy. It and the fruit are on top probably because they needed put away quickly. Why are you posting her business on the Internet? If you’re infuriated why didn’t you reach her how to load a dishwasher? If this is her house, why is any of this your business?

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      I am totally fucking here for this comment.

      Right on the fucking button.

      Either step up and be the fucking parent you’ve failed to be thus far, or back the fuck up, wind your neck in, and shut the fuck up.

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    Incredible parenting strategy to post your grievances toward her online at her expense instead of communicating openly with her about it.

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    Since you didn’t learn from the top comment in your last thread, allow me to repeat it here:

    It’s your fault, accept the shame and teach her.

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      As I discovered the hard way with my wife, if someone doesn’t care about something, you can’t teach them.

      You just have to decide if this annoyance is worth putting up with because of other things you love about them.

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    Haven’t we all been there? Not enough room for the box, you’re tired and probably going to eat it tomorrow anyway.

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      Yeah, if I already settled for a shitty takeout pizza I’m not having a good mental health day. That shit is getting jammed wherever it fits, probably 2 minutes before I pass out on the couch drunk. I’ll deal with it in the morning.

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    I am not sure what bad taste in pizza has to do with dishwashers, but if my kids bought dominoes I would be upset too.

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    I can still hear my Dad.

    Short shit on the short shit shelf

    Tall shit on the tall shit shelf

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      Your Dad apparently did some parenting, unlike the sperm/egg donor responsible for this.

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    You know you’re telling on yourself right. Parents are supposed to teach their kids these skills, man what have you been doing!! (/s)

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      Remember that those are designed to cover asses and cater to people with many different levels of working immune system. You may or may not need to actually be anywhere near that strict in your own home.

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    This hurts my heart. If I were to say there was any “failure” (I use that term loosely here), it’s that you obviously deprived your child of the joy that is Tetris.

    But, fear not! It’s never too late.

    ~In case it isn’t obvious, this comment is meant to be lighthearted. Y’all do y’all. 💙~