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  • AshenluxtoAutism@lemmy.worldDo you agree?
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    15 天前

    Yeah, this doesn’t really explain why the first is bad advice. Technically, it is great advice, eating better, having a schedule, and proper sleep DOES help people with ADHD. The problem is actually doing all that when struggling with ADHD. So when the advise boils down to “just do the thing” and you are struggling to do it, it feels worthless.


  • If the future involves Detroit: become human level AI and robots, it really makes me unsure about all of these questions. At that point, like the game brings up, we may need to start treating them as human, and that could change my mind about a couple of these.

    1. With what is actually likely for our future? Fuck no. Bunch of spyware trying to worm it’s way into every aspect of life. Not that I am even having kids away, in large part because of my pessimism for the future.

    2. I can’t imagine myself ever doing that. Part of what makes relationships so awesome is the fact that it is another person who willingly chooses to spend their time, money, space, and life with me. Having a robot that you buy and boot up would feel soo hollow.

    3. Not with current approaches, technology, and people in charge of it. These psychopath leading these AI companies don’t want robots with consciousness, they might demand rights. They just want a tool they can tell to do whatever they want.





  • AshenluxtoTrans Memeshow they generally generalize
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    They are already refusing to change though. “I hate all men” clearly it’s really winning them over, and it just makes it easier to discredit us as misandrists.

    Everything is becoming so polarized that we are losing nuance. If we ever want to actually change things for the better, we have to stop reaching for the easy slogans and bring the nuance back.






  • AshenluxtoTrans MemesShe wants us dead 🙃
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    Sure, that’s probably fine. But on the other hand, why not try any of the vastly better stories about a magical world to be obsessed with?

    It is ok to let go of something you used to love. It is ok to let go of something you still love. It will be sad and maybe even uncomfortable. but if you learn and know that this thing you love is hurting other people, you need do decide what you value more; peoples right to self-actualization and be their authentic selves, or your own comfort and entertainment.

    (I used a lot of “you” and “your”, but I want to stress I used those in a general sense, not directing this towards you specifically)






  • AshenluxtoAutism@lemmy.worldYep...
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    Sure, but maybe pick a new name for it? Asperger has a lot of baggage that I personally wouldn’t want to be associated with. Like, maybe we shouldn’t be mentioning a eugenicist when talking about conditions that often get people feeling eugenics-y.



  • AshenluxtoAsk Lemmy@lemmy.world*Permanently Deleted*
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    That anxiety and depression are just symptoms of deep problems, and not in and of themselves psychological conditions. It’s cheaper and less work to just throw meds at the symptoms then it is to do the work to find why people are struggling with the anxiety and depression.

    Many of the deeper issue causing them are from how are society works, and can’t be changed or fixed easily, but I don’t know, maybe if everyone realized that our society is hurting us this badly we could do something about it. But no, “here take these meds that will numb the pain and every emotion you have, now be a good little worker drone and get back to grind. It’s not the society that’s the issue, it just you… And everyone else that we are also giving these meds too.”

    I myself recently realized that the anxiety and depression I suffered from as a teen was caused by childhood trauma, being undiagnosed neurodigergent, and being Queer. All things society at large tries to ignore or out right hate. Any none of the mental health professionals tried to look into why I was struggling, they just gave me meds and sent me on my way.

    That being said, if the meds are the only thing keeping you from ending it all, do what you got to do. Meds are a tool and tools should be used if they are helpful.