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They do have a point though, the only person that can truly validate your identity is you.
I transitioned at 40. Easily the best decision I’ve ever made. It’s never too late. Happy to answer anything you might wonder.
Because many of us don’t view ourselves as having ever been the other gender. I was never male, but I was strongly encouraged by society to present and act as though I was so I did. It’s not “painful” it’s incorrect and a frustrating assumption.
It makes it sound like I either chose to switch, or something happened that switched me. Neither are true. I have ALWAYS been female, I just didn’t allow myself to show that to anyone outwardly until I transitioned.
Yep, I’ve found it really comes down to setting the right intentions up front, and being selective in who you play with. My goal was never to be on Grindr forever, but that’s where I had to go to meet fun kinky trans people in my area.
You know horses aren’t native to North America and were brought over by the Europeans right? Horses are only a brief part of their history.
No, I don’t count hookups as relationships, especially not long term relationships. But when they turn into significantly more than that, I do. I don’t need to defend my relationships though.
My definition is relationships I’ve been in for a good while that I intend to stay in. Why the personal attacks though? Seems pretty rude for no reason.
You’d be surprised… I currently have two LTRs that started as Grindr hookups…
Someone can’t get catgirls to pay attention to them… I feel sorry for you.
I’m always looking for a fun little project, I could dev that into a desktop app or website if you wanted.
I started at 39, and two and a half years in am starting to see more of the results I want. It takes time, but it only gets better from where you are at.
2·5 months agoI’ll start giving them two weeks when they start giving people two weeks after they fire them.
It is! That was SO unexpected to me. I thought I was choosing to be alone :( Nope, more love in my life than there has ever been!
I’ll keep doing my part!