he’s also cheating theres only 4 wild cards in an uno deck

I’d say starting hrt (once you’re more sure of who you are) is up there for most important things to do, the effects are life changing and any extra time you can be away from testosterone the better

past that, shave your body and paint your nails. learn makeup if you like and just be ready for a long journey. transition is a marathon, not a sprint!

proud of you for coming out, the hardest person to come to terms with is yourself

thats where I land too tbh, lesbian is an easier term to explain and I vibe with lesbians more than the more specific finsexual term

fake it till you make it, eventually my joking ‘girlboss’ attitude just turned into having some confidence. also I’m a girl now

you did a great job :)

my hair has returned to where it was ~7 years ago now, 7 months on hrt. it should get better if you have a low enough T level

dammit

do as I say not as I do

this was a sweet message to read on my break :) its nice to hear something as little as posting my day can make so many others day better

tight tops are the best

for the first few months my libido was gone, but now its back but very different. estrogen horny is very different from testosterone horny and I think I get like that more because I love how it feels so much

straight to the point I like it, thanks lol :)

if they cut you off for being trans its kinda a non starter to begin with (for me anyway, you’re totally valid to think otherwise). its who you are as a person and you can’t change that, theyll find out eventually on their own

3am text message to parents I knew would support me, do as I say not as I do lol

i would have a plan b if things are shaky already with support, dont risk anything if you are in danger of being kicked out or worse. have a sit down talk with them, theyll understand or they won’t. once you explain yourself its up to them to process it

going through the wrong puberty is traumatic

lucky! none of my skirts have shorts in them so I have to make sure I put something under them lol. i kinda like the thigh sticking in a weirdly euphoric way tbh

i was so worried about this when I first heard of the sheer amount of starlink crap being launched into orbit. upset that my worries were justified :(

crying is fucking amazing and I’m so glad hrt let’s us do it, prior to starting the only things that’d make me cry are extreme emotional pain and the very very rare happy tears. now I’ll tear up all the time and it makes me feel whole

i love that pattern so much! safety shorts might help with the thighs but could hurt the vibe

only tip I have is to wipe the brush on the neck of the bottle so you aren’t applying a ton at once, you wanna avoid putting a blob of polish on each nail similar to how you dont want a blob of paint on your paint brush.

past that just keep your hand steady and dont touch them to see if they’re dry! you’ll get it down over time :)