dreamy (she/her)
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Trans Memes•My therapist hit me with this banger regarding my attraction to men
8·6 hours agotransphobic rhetoric
It’s become kind of a common talking point that trans women are “castrated gay men” in terf spaces. Really stupid if one knows that trans women can also like women.
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Today I Learned@lemmy.world•TIL that Truth Social is (was?) based on MastodonEnglish
5·1 day agoLmao, I saw their website before and really thought that they had built something new.
We have Pardus as well, which just turned out to be an Ubuntu reskin.
No, LTT did in-video edits. They called them out because they had insane errors that could’ve been easily caught during editing in the first place, and their “fixes” were sometimes very unnoticeable by the viewer (just small text on the bottom correcting the information etc.).
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Piracy: ꜱᴀɪʟ ᴛʜᴇ ʜɪɢʜ ꜱᴇᴀꜱ@lemmy.dbzer0.com•A very easy guide to bypassing paywalls (pirating news)English
6·3 days agoYou can also use uBlock Origin’s element zapper mode a lot of the times.
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Atheism@lemmy.world•Funny how religious people can say anything to your face but any retort back is religious prosecutionEnglish
5·3 days agoYou misunderstand me. The negative emotions associated with transgender identity is the mental illness.
Do you think that everyone has the same amount of attention span that you do? You realize that we can scroll up to see your original reply where you say that mental illness is characterized by “an abnormal brain” right?
Trans people having negative emotions isn’t because of societal acceptance, it’s the opposite. The issue arises when people disregard trans people’s experiences and call them “mentally ill”, and even refuse care proven to work on the basis of calling them mentally ill.
Sorry I infringed on your right to call me “he” lmao.
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Atheism@lemmy.world•Funny how religious people can say anything to your face but any retort back is religious prosecutionEnglish
8·3 days agoWords have absolutely no meaning.
That’s not what I said, that’s just what you want me to say. Women are women and men are men. Actual is meaningless here.
I never said that trans women were “a male that feels like a female”, I said that their gender is incongruent with their sex, and you agreed with it. Gender and sex aren’t the same phenomenon. Gender refers to the typical psychological and sociocultural traits that are usually congruent with one’s sex, while sex refers to strictly to one’s biology.
Cis women may also have XY chromosomes (XY gonadal dysgenesis) and internal testes. Discarding other primary and secondary sexual characteristics just to disregard trans people just makes you seem more ignorant.
It isn’t identical, but it is analogous.
Wanting you to not be a douchebag isn’t analogous to wanting you to accept their religion.
Appeal to authority and also false. It isn’t a settled topic. Plenty of biologists still hold that the male/female distinction on a biological basis is useful. Even if some people confuse sex and gender.
😂 Addressing the scientific consensus isn’t appeal to authority. I’m not saying “This person is a doctor so they must be right” I’m pointing to the consensus of WMA which is a gigantic WHO-partnered organization. The same is also visible for the majority of major medical organizations in the U.S.
Plenty of biologists also hold the view that evolution isn’t real, and that doesn’t affect the consensus. This issue was also mostly settled already before it became a political point.
And nobody is saying that we should get rid of the male/female distinction.
Correct. Which in no way means that we need to acknowledge that they are anything other than what they were born as.
Disregarding the fact that this statement doesn’t disagree with my point, I hope you’re not as stupid as to not see this entailing calling grown-ass people babies.
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Atheism@lemmy.world•Funny how religious people can say anything to your face but any retort back is religious prosecutionEnglish
5·3 days agoIt is what the study found. I didn’t say anything about it being shifted towards either end of a spectrum, I said that it seems to have a neuroanatomical component.
Sexual orientation also has a neuroanatomic component to it, or an “abnormal brain” if we use your words. Do you think that homosexual people are also mentally ill, or that that is just natural human diversity. Because that would be a weird double-standard.
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Atheism@lemmy.world•Funny how religious people can say anything to your face but any retort back is religious prosecutionEnglish
7·3 days ago“Actual woman” is meaningless. If their gender is incongruent with their sex and they are male, it follows logically that they are women. There are also arguments about medically transitioned trans people being the opposite of their sex assigned at birth, as they come to fit the sexual characteristics of their gender identity.
I’m not aware of any laws making it illegal to misgender someone, and even if I grant you that it still isn’t comparable at all. Preferred pronouns aren’t the same as “God’s chosen people”. The latter implies that a God that watches you masturbate in your room exists, while the former only has you acknowledge what has already been acknowledged by the best medical professionals in the world, of which I suppose you see yourself smarter than.
Trans women aren’t “born men”. A baby isn’t a man. They were born male and they found out their gender identity to be incongruent with their sex later in life.
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Atheism@lemmy.world•Funny how religious people can say anything to your face but any retort back is religious prosecutionEnglish
11·3 days agoTrans people don’t have a “false belief”. No trans person says that they were actually born female or male or something. Their claim is simply that their gender is incongruent with their sex, which is a true statement. And it is absurd to say that religious people who are trying to ban books, proclaim Jesus is King in state law, and make the U.S. a theocratic nation are the same as trans people wanting to keep their medical care and not be ostracized simply for who they are.
suffer social ramifications
So you want to be able to say or do anything you want to about trans people, but you want them to not be able to say or do anything back 🤦♀️. You have the right to free speech, and so do others. Cry about it.
I recommend watching https://youtu.be/pVzRrQrc-90 which has a biologist talking about pretty much this topic.
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Atheism@lemmy.world•Funny how religious people can say anything to your face but any retort back is religious prosecutionEnglish
9·3 days agoGender is typically congruent with one’s sex, it isn’t completely unrelated to one’s biology. Gender identity also seems to have a neuroanatomic component to it.
“Their socially constructed and self perceived gender” is meaningless. Trans people’s gender identity is incongruent with their sex. That’s it.




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