As fashions shift I suppose. We had a huge nekomimi thing forever and eventually a generation grew with that oversaturated market and went the other way.

Eventually the pendulum will return to cat girl supremacy era.

Do you have backing for that close ties with the mag admin claim? I know the controversy but doesn’t seem to have any teeth.

Despite being a more recent adopter of proton for mail myself, they also have essentially a replacement suite for Google, there’s a proton drive. Admittedly, I don’t have experience with it as I’ve not for collaboration and have been migrating more and more away from clouds.

If calling it a stall instead of spot flows better, and the other person receives the information, language’s role is completed successfully. You do you.

Please consider distancing from google for trans content 😅

How did anyone spend their day? While there were community events and gatherings, I chose to try and get fresh air and ground in nature. Went a little out, parked near a trail, and enjoyed our second spring stroll (weather was nice too) with my wife and two little kids (5&2).

Things aren’t perfect and I still am working towards some “end” goals, but it is nice to have an opportunity to reset and try and change my mind into looking forward… and recalibrate my rage for my further existence and progress.

Katamari Damacy

Good budgeting gets a treat girl!!! (If budgeted)

You’re always helpful and intelligent, ily💖

I’m ……… happy for you and soooo been waiting for something like that probably all my life. I dream of this with my wife, and just all the things. 🙃

Love this fo you 💖

Thanks for all the info.

I’m in the paperwork part for mine then I’ll have a date to look forward to at some point.

Tell loved ones, the rest get breadcrumbs at best. People who don’t love and appreciate you as a human are not worth the time or air.

I first started with people I felt safe enough around, in this case it was actually within my work environment because I wanted to establish a safety network there as I did it.

Find a moment, get the persons attention, “hey can I share something with you?” And you have a chance to take some breaths and stabilize while they change their attention. No sense turning back, but you could, though throwing myself in the deeper end like this has been working. It’s easier to steel one’s resolve when facing it for real versus just living it out in your mind.

“Sooo I’m trans, I go by <pronouns>, I’m kinda new at this. “

For many people I had an added comment of like “I really admire <aspect or quality> in you” etc and it puts this into a share realm for them. I’ve tied them to me with something like that and it kinda opened all the conversations.

It helps that I did this working in an education environment so literally everyone is educated adults. I did select people in small waves and did it bit by bit and it kept getting easier to speak out loud, share, open up and start actually living….

Didn’t take long from there to find and feel support, then take the plunge fully.

Good luck anyone and everyone.

& often during

Exactly the reason I’m scrolling here, bottom dysphoria is hitting hard right now and I’ll come here to lighten the load.

I mean… it’s how someone pays for them and much of the reason to be doing them consistently.

Appreciate the compiling of bullshit for us to keep track.

Oh and daytime sucks typically. Nap where I can if possible. Cancel my mental to dos and recalibrate based on my energy levels. I’ll typically just have a day and will forget a bit that I hadn’t slept. Later in the day and evening it becomes very apparent I haven’t slept and that’s all I really want by then.

Nighttime, like right now, I’ve given up on bed for now. I go enjoy the night a little and go for a drive. If I don’t drive maybe journal or work on art on the iPad for a bit. The key is for me to leave my bed, and when I go back to it it’s like being fresh into bed and I might catch the sleep wave.

I also consider past 3am struggles to be in the range of getting as high as I can in cannabis til I get eepy and go to sleep.