Nat (she/they)

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Cake day: December 31st, 2023

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  • Nat (she/they)toTransfemDenial arc??
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    18 hours ago

    You don’t need to answer if you’re trans or not. Do you think you’d feel better presenting differently? Try it. Think you’d feel better on HRT? Try it. Think you’d feel better going by another name? Try it. You can do all of that without addressing the big trans question; and if you’re not trans, well, maybe you still feel better presenting differently for instance, so trying’s still a net positive.

    I told myself this to allow myself to do things, and eventually the trans question answered itself for me. But that didn’t really matter, because regardless of the answer I was better off for trying things and learning about myself.


  • Nat (she/they)toTrans Memesgenders
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    5 days ago

    Those objects would still exist, but they wouldn’t be recognized as manifestations of the same category “car”. And they are quite different from each other, just look at electric vs gas, and vs motorcycles which somehow aren’t cars.


  • One word descriptions rarely fit completely neatly. Is that (hypothetical) object over there blue? Blueish? Blue-green? Cyan? Blue gradient? Mostly blue? I say any of those are close enough depending on how precisely you want to communicate that object to people, and if they give you a hard time over it they’re just being annoying.











  • Something the general public doesn’t understand is that disorders are only disorders if they’re actually an issue for the person. An obsessive compulsion is only OCD if it’s an issue; if the person doesn’t care, it’s probably not a disorder. A neuro-endocrine difference is only a disorder if the person feels it is. And even then, “disorder” doesn’t mean they’re required to do anything about it if they don’t want to, because it’s their body and their choice. This goes against the eugenics-y idea most people have that diagnosis means you must have that “fixed”.

    I wish people would interpret these as potential issues with studied options rather than brokenness requiring fixing.