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  • MissyBeetoTransfem[Big rant] I doubt HRT will fix me
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    6 days ago

    Yeah it probably won’t. Like Theresa and Shirow said the mental transition is the biggest influence that can change you. We are living in a superficial world. The internet is filled with survivorship bias(attractive people tend to show off and are more visible), keep that in mind.

    I too see myself as unattractive(lack features that our society sees as attractive) and sometimes feel alienated when I consume media. What helped me dealing with that is working on my mental health, and time.

    I am in the team “HRT is not magic”. HRT is giving you smooth skin and small titties for the most part, the rest is up for you to do unfortunately.

    I wrote a post a few months back where I ranted my emotions and since then my situation improved again. I have bad and good years since starting transition. And I am not alone, we are all struggling, some maybe more than others. Please don’t beat yourself up too much over it. Give it some time.
















  • MissyBeeto196about rule
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    1 month ago

    I once matched with a person on OKCupid and she told me something like “hey you seem interesting, I am currently seeing a lot of people but I might reach out to you soon”

    She put me on a fucking list.




  • MissyBeetoTransgender FitnessAda's Fitness Journey
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    1 month ago

    Last year was the first time I trained for a 10k running event seriously enough to be at that pre-HRT pace time again. I never thought I would be able to reach that again.

    But after that I fell back to my slower pace and if I don’t invest that time again I will stay under it. It feels like chasing a ghost. But I accept that now. That was a different person. I am me now.