• Mk23simp
    82·
    3 months ago

    My lesbian GF played 5D chess by clocking that I was an transfem egg and dating me for years before I realized it for myself. XD

    • ZorsithEnglish
      33·
      3 months ago

      shrug I don’t find masculinity to be attractive in pretty much any capacity.

      • Lily [she/her, pup/pup's]M
        19·
        3 months ago

        this is why i consider myself bi and lesbian. i might (big might) date a man but not a manly man. basically labels can never fully encompass somebodies sexuality and are just… labels.

        • ZorsithEnglish
          11·
          3 months ago

          Bingo. For the right person, maybe, but its highly unlikely and not going to be actively sought out.

      • FerretyFever0@fedia.io
        8·
        3 months ago

        Fair enough. I can certainly understand why a lot of people wouldn’t lol Especially with all of the (pretty deserved) connotations associated with it.

      • gandalf_der_12te
        7·
        3 months ago

        the thing that pisses me off is the frequent definition of “masculine” as somebody who is a hyper-asshole, or at least centered on making a lot of noise for absolutely no reason and generally just being on a micro-rampage all the time.

      • Trainguyrom@reddthat.comEnglish
        3·
        3 months ago

        Basically this. As a straight(ish) cis person with exclusively queer friends (purely by happenstance of course) that do be how it is for folks who are not bi/pan/Omni is just we’re just not attracted to masculinity/femininity.

        Basically think of whatever is just super not your type, and imagine that feeling but towards specifically masculinity or femininity in general and you have what it’s like

    • radishOPEnglish
      16·
      3 months ago

      i’ve talked to my bi and straight friends and tried to understand what it is about men they like and like… i almost get it but i just really prefer girls. Feel free to explain though

      • Lucy :3@feddit.org
        18·
        3 months ago

        In short: Nerd is nerd, cuddly is cuddly, kiss is kiss, ass is ass and idc if I’m penetrated by a cock or dildo or if I penetrate

    • i_dont_want_to
      5·
      3 months ago

      I mean, I don’t get how people can be attracted to men. All the respect to men and those that desire them, but it’s just not for me.

      • DarkAriBanned
        4·
        3 months ago

        Some guys are cute but I’m not attracted to most men. I like cute and pretty guys, androgynous guys as well. Most men put almost no effort into their looks and the ones who do often tend to lean into masculinity which isn’t for me.

  • homura1650@lemmy.world
    11·
    3 months ago

    I feel this.

    I think of myself as bi. But every time I thought I was going out with a man, she would eventually hatch into a trans woman.

    Like, I’m happy for you and women are great. But I need to date a man before my bisexual card gets revoked!

    • radishOPEnglish
      6·
      3 months ago

      Twitter user HalimedeMF (not sure if i should link to that site here), the internet’s greatest chaser and character from Heaven Will Be Mine.

      • itslilith
        2·
        3 months ago

        Always love to spot Heaven Will Be Mine in the wild