I thought fetishes are things which deviate from the baseline. Maybe we’ve come full circle.
Morticia and Gomez Addams, at least from the 60s/90s versions are iconic for being a deep opposite of tv married couples ¯\(ツ)/¯ rapturous monogamous love can totally be a kink.
I thought they were so cringe when I was younger, but the older I get the more I realize they are living the dream.
have you seen the current baseline?
I prefer
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Okay, angst I get, but ‘fluff’ and angst? Are we on a porn set with conflicted morals?
Oooh, Ao3! Yay!
MAXIMUM cuddle puddle 🥰
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Some of these, yes. But not fidelity. We love love that is free to experience it with whoever they want. Polyam and Relationship Anarchy FTW!
i respect your opinion but personally I disagree. I be bonding for life like a penguin. Me and my little lesbian penguin gf ☃️♥️
We don’t think we implied anything about the time we or anybody else who is polyamorous or relationship anarchist likes to be with others.
We have no deisre to give up on our current relationships of that kind, just we have more than one of them.
Edit: Nor did we imply how ‘bonded’ we are to any of them.
Edit 2: It seems not all penguins are bonded for life either: https://www.sciencealert.com/shock-discovery-reveals-penguins-dont-mate-for-life-after-all
Fidelity means not cheating, itdoesnt have anything to do with partner count, and is not synonymous with monogomay. You can be in a poly relationship, and practice fidelity by not cheating on your poly partners.
Yes and no. There’s polyfidelity which means:
We’re not into that type of relationship personally and prefer it unrestricted/non-exclusive. That is where we were drawing our definition of fidelity from in this case. Apologies for the confusion.
Poly works for some people. It doesn’t work for everyone. Is it anarchy if we’re expecting people who genuinely prefer monogamy to participate to be valid in their love too?
No beef here, but poly doesn’t work for everybody, and that’s fine.
Yes, which is why we were specifically talking about ourselves.
If you aren’t familiar with relationship anarchy then here: https://relationship-anarchy.com/
I hate it when i tell people that those are my kinks and they put disappointed away the whip…
