So fuck spez but r/t4t and r/r4r were useful. Where do yall meet folx for friendship and more?

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        2 months ago

        I think most people read “t4t” and think sex, fwiw - it’s literally language from hookup culture

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        It can be, I found my friends/partners there but I get it reputation.

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      2 months ago

      yeah, honestly unless you’re into remote relationships, t4t probably should be local and I’m sure there are a bunch of dating apps for that kind of thing

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        Fetlife is mostly a good way of linking in with the local kink community, which tends to be full of queer, nerdy, neurodivergent folks. Culture may vary by area. But fetlife is mostly good for finding out what kink events are near you, so its probably not a bad option