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TotallynotJessicaM to 196English · 3 days ago

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    OOP is the household pet.

  • n0xy [n0xy/n0xy‘s]@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    sounds unfair

    • TotallynotJessicaOPM
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      It’s definitely a dick move

  • maria [she/her]
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    yea.

    yea… thats how i feel here in lemmy too… happy for yall.

    • TotallynotJessicaOPM
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      That door is more open than you realize

      • QuinnyCoded@sh.itjust.works
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        door to what?

        • TotallynotJessicaOPM
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          fun stuff

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          for her, yes. i just suck at life

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    sounds like they were in a polyamorous relationship too but didn’t realize, and everyone was a little miffed that they hadn’t noticed

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      A relationship without clear communication is not a good relationship

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    i wanna have the clothing fron salmon-colored girl-

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