• SuperNovaStar
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            Is english your first language?

            “Girls” can mean children, but is frequently used for women of any age as a diminutive. Same goes for “boys.”

            However, “children” almost exclusively refers to someone underage.

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              It is not, but the same thing occurs in my mother tongue. I’m just salty that there is a gender neutral word, but only the gendered versions got their meanings expanded

              edit: now that I think about it, the translation for boy/girl is acceptable in less places and I don’t think we use it in compound words

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                I think it doesn’t work because “child” is gender-neutral referring to age, rather than referring to a specific gender. What we need is a word for enby kids.

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    Unless she’s not into it, of course. I had a partner who didn’t want anything to do with her penis. Any sense of pleasure was overridden by the discomfort of her dysphoria.

    As an alternative, she would love to be tied up and given sensory play. Ice cubes, wax, paintbrushes, roller pins, anything to produce a novel sensation would drive her wild. So yeah, your mileage may vary. Either way, bring some pleasure to the trans partner in your life today! :)

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        This makes me feel a lot better abt myself, tbh. I always thought I was just an extreme outlier for what I wanted done to me, and to know it’s fairly common feels better. I need very specific care to not be overwhelmed by dysphoria.

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      Hey, one overly curious question. Was the sensation play also around the genitals or was it focused on other erogenous zones?

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      Yeah, head is nice don’t get me wrong, but I’ll take flowers, friendship, transition help, money. Yknow things that are actually meaningful. C’mon y’all, I’m not just a dick to suck.

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      Personally, I’d prefer head. Or a couple hours of Guilty Gear 1v1, even better

      Edit: Strive, on the EU servers (Greece), with a mid Nago that I’d just love to play against someone who’d destroy me, freely

      Hit me up on Dms if you wanna spar!

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    enbies need bad too 🥺

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    deleted by creator

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    In all seriousness, how would one ask about this? Like just saying “Hey, you’re trans right? Do you probably need head bad rn?” seems a bit creepy?

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      “Hey what Linux distro do you use?”

      If it’s Nix OS you’re golden. If it’s Arch there’s a decent chance.

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        If they say Debian, is that a clue they aren’t into brief encounters but want more of a long term relationship?

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      I think you need to go around in a shirt something like:

      🌈 PRIDE DEALS 🦄

      THIS MONTH ONLY 🔥🔥🔥

      TRANS GIRLS GET THEIR DICKS SUCKED FREE!!

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      Trans ppl are way more receptive to outwardly flirtatious approaches

      Edit.: Speaking about my lived experiences, trans ppl have been easier to approach.

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        my personal opinion is that the sponge sucks until it’s wet

        in other words, people who’ve already made a lot of sexual experiences in their life don’t need it anymore, but people who’ve never had the chance to, seek it.

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        Being trans correlates with being autistic, and autistic people generally appreciate directness.

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      there is just one very obvious motive to this post

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        If you happen to be literally anywhere in the pacific northwest of the USA, you’re in driving distance…

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          There are some really horny people in this post.

          It’s me. I’m horny 🤣

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          well i’m in europe soo…

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            Damn. I’ll let you know when I tour Europe xD

            Or you can send me a pic in DMs and I’ll send a vid back mouth fucking it. idk.

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            …and I’ll drive out to suck your dick :)

            [conditions and restrictions apply. Trans individuals need only apply. Must be open to being in a loving throuple for the rest of your life. See your doctor about getting tested before hand so that I can gobble that nozzle and bathe in that glaze without worry]

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          I wish I lived in PNW. The southeast is… less friendly to trans folks.

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      You don’t use much social media, then? Is this a joke? Its literally a twitter screenshot lol.

      Lemmy noticeably has very little queer horny posting. I feel like even Tumblr, with its site wide porn ban, is more publicly horny than Lemmy.

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        Browsing “all” here has a lot of queer content compared to reddit for instance. Make of that what you will, but to cishet me, that was very apparent upon joining Lemmy.

        Not much horny posting tho.

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        I don’t. But, I don’t think posts about oral sex are typically the top post on the equivalent of “All” on other social media, as this post was. I could be wrong. I routinely see sexual topics on All here (sorted by Active). Nothing wrong with it, just making an observation.

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    Ok fine but you’re staying tied up in my basement can’t be spoiling ya too much